![]() ![]() He has no friends, he has no relationships, and he has no connections, because we think of life as an individual journey. In that book there is an individual kid, graduated from college, and his life is a series of experiences on the way up to success. We buy kids this book called Oh, the Places You’ll Go! by Dr. The third lie is that life is an individual journey. ![]() If you ask people at the end of their lives what made them happy, it was not self-sufficiency it was the moments when they were utterly dependent on somebody else and somebody else was utterly dependent on them. The second lie of the meritocracy is the lie of self-sufficiency-that you can make yourself happy, that if you can win one more victory, lose 15 pounds, or get really good at yoga, you will be happy. I am the poster child for that not being true. The first lie of the meritocracy is that career success makes you happy. But there are things in the meritocracy that, if you take unadulterated with no other moral system, are actually lies. This meritocracy does give us a lot of achievement. Then they get out and lead the kind of life that I led, which was a life in the meritocracy, trying to make it, trying to achieve, trying to contribute, and trying to build up an identity. We take kids who start with the intensity of life and feed them into the college-admissions process, which teaches them that status and achievement are at the core of life. When you walk through the career side of life, you walk with a certain set of values. ![]()
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